This book found me at the right time, as I was feeling “stuck” in many areas of my life. Through Mel’s discussion of inseparability, uncertainty, and potentiality, I have come to embrace the concept that I am truly the captain of my own ship. This is a must-read for anyone finding him or herself stuck in old ways of thinking, feeling defeated by one’s past, and feeling unable to connect to the present. This one is staying on my nightstand.